do you ever feel like you have to avoid an elephant in the room as to not hurt people's feelings or self image?
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i'm never trying to hurt anyone's feelings. i feel like people should always keep that in mind when people try to dissect controversial opinions. i don't like seeing people distressed as that usually indicates something in their past is preventing them from thinking about it clearly. i just want to understand everyone and make sure we're all on the same page.